I am a Victorian Soul, who lives in a small townhouse that was built in the mid 1970's, not a huge Mega Mansion!! I just recently lost my Hubby Joe, who was a Retired Letter Carrier. I worked night shift as an RN on a Hospital based Rehabilitation( Physical Medicine) Unit for 37 years before I had Knee Replacement Surgery and officially Retired in 2019 after 41 years working in Direct Patient Care ... I am so glad that we retired at 62 years of age and got to spend that time together before he passed....I still do love Retirement!!!!

I DABBLE IN A BIT OF THIS AND THAT!!!!

" IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO BE WHAT YOU MIGHT HAVE BEEN"
George Eliot
George Eliot was actually a pen name for a woman named Mary Anne Evans......

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Monday, March 9, 2026

Intentions, Possibilities & Goals for the New Year, 2026

 

 

  

Welcome to Debbie-Dabble Blog!!

 
I am so happy you decided to stop by!!
 
Blogging has always been a stress reliever for me along with an avenue to share my passions which are my home and my garden.....
 
 I feel it is a personal Journal that, hopefully, someday, my Twin Granddaughters will be able to look back on to learn about who I was.... 

I will be posting 3 times a week on MONDAYS, THURSDAYS and SATURDAYS....
 

As always, click on each picture if you would like to enlarge it....
 
 
 PINTEREST
 
If you would like to Pin my pictures, please click on them to enlarge them to do so....
 
 
 A NOTE ABOUT COMMENTS
 
I enjoy reading your comments and will return the favor by visiting and commenting on your blog or reply to you directly here if you do not have a blog but I do have my comment section set to Moderation due to spammers and hackers so your comment will not appear immediately...
And since I have a very busy life, like most of us do, it may take me awhile to return your comments but I promise I will....
 
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In my last post, I shared how I did with my February Goals and what are my Goals for March....
 
  

 

 Click HERE if you missed that post!!


 And now for a few Personal Notes...
 
  
 For the New Year, I am trying something different with my 3 times weekly posts.... 
 
On THURSDAYS, I will feature what I cooked and ate during the week, showcasing local cuisine and a few recipes for things that I actually made...
 
  
  
I decided that on SATURDAYS, I will showcase What I Have Been Up To in the past week, sharing events and places I went to, if any.... 
  

 
On MONDAYS, I will be featuring What I Have Bought or Been Gifted Recently, if anything... 
 
 
 
 
 I am happy to say that even though today is MONDAY, I have nothing to share as I did not buy or receive any gifts this past week!!
 
Well!
 
Imagine that! 
 
 
This post is long overdue, I know! 
 
 
 
  In the beginning of the year, I posted what my Word of the Year was....
 
 
 
INTENTION 
 
 
 
 
 "An intention is the idea that you plan (or intend) to carry out.
 
 If you mean something, it's an intention.
 
 Your goal, purpose, or aim is your intention.
 
 It's something you mean to do, whether you pull it off or not."
  
 
I like that "you mean to do something whether you pull it off or not.... "
 
Meaning no guilt for not doing something... 
 

"How can a person be intentional?
 
Being intentional means making deliberate choices to reflect what is most important to us.
 
 Becoming intentional can help us maintain a positive mindset, reach goals, experience more clarity, and be more present.
 
 It can also increase our focus and commitment and bring more purpose and meaning to our lives."
 
 
I like "being more present"! 

 
Why, you may ask, did I choose INTENTION as my Word for the Year??
  
 
 
 
This is why.....

 
Time is short so I do not want to waste the time I have left here on this earth....

And I can control my INTENTIONS....
 
I need that feeling of control as I have felt my life was totally out of control for the past 2 years.... 

 
 
 
This is a great article about setting a Word of the Year and your INTENTIONS

Well, INTENTION is my One Little Word...
 

 
 
 “Intentional days create a life on purpose.” Adrienne Enns
 
 Here is another great article.... 

 
 
 
 Living Intentionally brings a purpose to life creating passion...
 
Since the beginning of the year, I have tried to live each day INTENTIONALLY..... 
 
   
 
 This means that even on days when I do not feel like doing anything, especially what I have listed on my daily To Do List....
 
 And yes, I do have those days....
 
 I try to think about something small that I can do and at least accomplish something for the day so that day still has purpose.......
  
This also involves being MINDFUL.... 
 

 
 
 
 Here are some of my general INTENTIONS for this New Year...
 
 A lot of these have to do with establishing a new life for myself after the passing of my husband Joe almost 2 years ago....
 
I INTEND to find JOY in every Day 
 
 
 
 I think this is important for everyone to do...
 
One of my favorite You Tube personalities, Jean E,. always encourages her viewers to do something that you enjoy at least once a day, even if it only takes a few minutes, because it will give you JOY even if you are having a bad day...
 
  
And that is so important... 
 
 
And more INTENTIONS for this year...

 
 
 I definitely INTEND to protect my Peace....
 
Even if that means distancing myself from people or events that put that Peace in jeopardy... 
 
 I INTEND to keep learning to accept what I can not change and trust the timing in my life....
 
 And I definitely INTEND to keep learning and keep growing and be proud of that progress...
  
I also INTEND to start romanticizing my life... 
 
 
 
 What I need to really focus on is setting  Daily Intentions for myself....
 
These are different from my daily or monthly To Do List..... 
 
This is a great guide to Daily INTENTIONS...
 
 

 All of these help and encourage sticking to my Daily To Do List....
 
 
Now I do have some specific INTENTIONS for the year....
 
I am going to call them INTENTIONS rather than Goals because like the definition of INTENTION says "you mean to do something whether you pull it off or not.... "
 
That gives me a bit of forgiveness and grace if I do not pull them off!! 
  
 
 
 INTENTIONS taken from the list above:
 
 
 Make something beautiful
 
I have realized that since my husband Joe passed away almost 2 years ago, I have not really done any crafting.... 
 
 And this could be why.... 


Yep!
 
My Craft Room is a disaster.....
 
So one of my INTENTIONS for this year is to go through everything, and by that I mean all the tubs, boxes, etc. in my craft room, and seriously decide what I will keep and what will be passed on....
 
And that will require me to be MINDFUL of  what I want to continue to have in my house, storage of those items, etc.
 
After I do all of this, then I INTEND to re-organize both the Craft Room and the Sitting Room as the closet in the Sitting Room also contains some crafting supplies...
 
This is going to be a HUGE task so I am hoping that the Summer will be cooler than it has been in recent years so I can work up in both rooms as i do not have air conditioning in those rooms....
 
 
Read for pleasure

I INTEND to start to make time in my day  even if it is only 2-3 times a week, to read....

During the Pandemic, I bought 4 bags containing 10 paperbacks each of books at a local library sale....
 
I think I have read maybe 6 of those books in the 6 years since the Pandemic...
 
And those book are in addition to books that I accumulated prior to my retirement thinking that I would read...
 
I realize that I have more time to do this in the Summer as I am not redecorating the house for different Holidays every 4-6 weeks like I am from Fall to Easter.... 


Drink more water

I INTEND to drink a minimum of 64 oz. of water daily....

To accomplish this, I bought this from Dollar Tree....
 
 
 

This is part of my Wellness INTENTIONS


I really need to start to exercise again this year....
 
It seems that since Joe passed away, I have a mental block with walking like we did when we walked our grand pups every morning as my son and DIL were at work.... 
 
Grief is a funny thing, isn't it??? 

This was our coldest Winter in 30 years but even though that is an excuse for not walking outside, I could be using my stationary bike in my bedroom....
 
Which I have not done and I know I really should be doing as it will maintain the Range of motion in both my knees, especially the one with a joint replacement.... 

So this falls in line with the INTENTION to 
 
Tell myself the truth , always 

Meaning that these are no good excuses....
 
So .....
 
I INTEND to start walking even if it is at the Mall, which is level and climate controlled. right down the road from me, 5 minutes away....
 
At least 3 times a week.... 
 
Have I started to do that???
 
Not Yet! 
 
Again, I am being truthful! 


I do admit that I felt great when I was walking daily....


Try New Things

I INTEND to do this by going to different events and places where I have not gone before....

One example of this was that I went to The Raging Reptile Show at the Mall by me even though I am deathly afraid of snakes....
 

 

Embrace opportunities

This goes hand in hand with trying new things if the opportunity presents itself....
 
I am doing this through a lot of events that the new Senior Social Club I belong to, and am President of, are doing.. ..
 
We went to a high school presentation of "Fiddler on the Roof yesterday...
 
More on that in a future post... 


Spend time outdoors

I INTEND to spend more time out on my front porch and back Patio even if it is unGodly hot this Summer by using a fan outside!!
 
The heat and humidity kill me in the Summer because of my auto immune diseases but I do INTEND to fight it this Summer... 
 
 
 Some other specific INTENTIONS for the year
 
1.Start to organize my Mother's old photos in an acid free container that I bought several years ago... 
 
Notice I am saying "start"...
 
2. Decide what sports Memorabilia of Joe's that is left, will be kept or passed on in addition to those that I already went through...
 
3. Go through all the CD's I have and decide what to keep or pass on
 
4. Continue to go through everything in my storage room and decide what to keep or pass on
 
5. Continue to go through everything in my storage unit that I rent, donate some things and hopefully, be able to move to a smaller unit...
 
6. Go through all of my dishes, glassware, etc. and decide what to keep and what to pas on.. 
 
These are all fairly big projects that I INTEND to work on and complete, by the grace of God, by the end of the year,...
 
 I may or may not list them in Monthly Goals unless it is a specific task that I want to accomplish in doing those big projects....
 


 This is another great list of INTENTIONS that I have posted for a few years now....
 
 
 
 But I am focusing on the last statement...

I INTEND to buy LESS...

I can't guarantee Buying Nothing but so far, I have decreased my Buying...


I also INTEND to Shop my own home

I have been watching some You Tube Videos where decorators are doing this and using everyday items to decorate with..

I have started to do this with using Holiday decorations for different Seasons and Holidays than what they were INTENDED for... 

I INTEND to sew something and make something once i get my craft room in order... 

 

 Other INTENTIONS for the year....

Spend LESS time on Face book

Spend MORE time reading Blog posts

 Respond to Blog comments quicker

Watch MORE You Tube decorating Videos

Listen to some Podcasts

Reconnect with a few old friends and meet for lunch or invite over

I did just hat yesterday as I got to spend an afternoon with an old friend and former co worker as she rode with me and we sat together when attending a high school play with other members of our Senior social club.

She belongs to my church , is a member of the club and also recently lost her husband... 

Be in contact more, whether through messages, texts, phone calls or visits with more family members....

 

 Well, that is about it....

I know it seems like a lot....

But.....


  My favorite quote!
 

  I hope you will stop by to visit again on THURSDAY for my next post!!
 
 
 Stay safe, healthy and most of all, HAPPY!! 
 
  
And try to find Joy in every single day!
 

Thanks to those who took the time out of their busy day to spend a little bit of time with me!!

If you do not have a blog, PLEASE  give me some way to reply to your comment, maybe by including your email in your comment.  If I can not find a way to reach you, I will reply on the post where you commented so please check back......


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  THURSDAY
 
 
    Please take some time to visit these terrific hosts and all those joining in on the fun!
 
 
 
 
 

Saturday, March 7, 2026

February Update & Goals for March, 2026

 

 

  

Welcome to Debbie-Dabble Blog!!

 
I am so happy you decided to stop by!!
 
Blogging has always been a stress reliever for me along with an avenue to share my passions which are my home and my garden.....
 
 I feel it is a personal Journal that, hopefully, someday, my Twin Granddaughters will be able to look back on to learn about who I was.... 

I will be posting 3 times a week on MONDAYS, THURSDAYS and SATURDAYS....
 

As always, click on each picture if you would like to enlarge it....
 
 
 PINTEREST
 
If you would like to Pin my pictures, please click on them to enlarge them to do so....
 
 
 A NOTE ABOUT COMMENTS
 
I enjoy reading your comments and will return the favor by visiting and commenting on your blog or reply to you directly here if you do not have a blog but I do have my comment section set to Moderation due to spammers and hackers so your comment will not appear immediately...
And since I have a very busy life, like most of us do, it may take me awhile to return your comments but I promise I will....
 
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In my last post, I shared my Saint Patrick's Day Tree......
 
 

  

  

 

 Click HERE if you missed that post!! 

  

I want to Thank Barb, over at the French Ethereal, for choosing my post, A Little Bit of Winter and New Lamps, as one of her features from last week's Share Your Style Link party!! 

 She enjoyed seeing pierogies and the red transferware featured in the previous post....... 

 

Thanks so much, Barb!!

 

 I also want to THANK my Blogger friend Andrea, over at The Cottage Market, for choosing my post post, Winter at Nelson Crest & a Birthday Celebration, as one of her features from last week's A Morning Cup of Joe Link Party!! 

 

 

 She always makes my day with her sweet comments like this one!!

 "Take a cozy winter stroll through Nelson Crest and enjoy a sweet birthday celebration along the way. Debbie shares beautiful seasonal decor and heartwarming moments that make winter home tours feel extra special. Everything Debbie does is special and that makes her who she is! Special!"

 Thanks so much, Andrea!!

 

 And I want to Thank Marsha ,over at Marsha in the Middle, for choosing my blog post, Where Do I Keep It All? & How to Store Ornaments", as one of her features from last week's Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot Link Party!! 

 


Thanks so much, Marsha!!
 
 
 I also want to Thank Melynda, over at Scratch Made Food! And DIY Home Made Household, for also choosing my post, Winter at Nelson Crest & a Birthday Celebration, as one of her features from last week's Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot Link Party!!
  

 
Thanks so much Melynda!! 
 
 
I also want to Thank my fellow PA resident Lisa, over at Boondock Ramblings,for choosing my blog post, A Birthday Celebration and Winter at Nelson Crest, as one of her features from last week's Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot Link Party!! 
 
 
  
 
 
 Thanks again, Lisa!!

I really appreciate ALL these lovely hosts featuring my blog posts!! 

It means the World to me!!! 

So Please stop by and link up to these wonderful parties!! 

 

 And now for a few Personal Notes...
 
 
 For the New Year, I am trying something different with my 3 times weekly posts.... 
 
On THURSDAYS, I will feature what I cooked and ate during the week, showcasing local cuisine and a few recipes for things that I actually made...
 
    
I decided that on SATURDAYS, I will showcase What I Have Been Up To in the past week, sharing events and places I went to, if any.... 
  
 
On MONDAYS, I will be featuring What I Have Bought or Been Gifted Recently, if anything... 
 
 
 
 
Since it is SATURDAY, I am going to be sharing what I did last weekend but it will be a bit later on in this post......
 
 
 
Last year, I joined a group of Bloggers who were setting Quarterly and Monthly Goals......
 
 My Goals are more of a To Do List for each Season....
 

And I do so love my To Do Lists....
 
This year, I have decided to only do Monthly Goals..... 
 
 
 
I have been a bit behind on posting these for January and February......
 
So today, I will be sharing how I did with my February Goals (which I never got to post about) and what my Goals for March are..... 
 

FEBRUARY GOALS

This was left over from January....Finish decorating the Dining Room for Heart month.... I accomplished this in the first week of February..

 After decorating for Winter and Heart Month, I decided to take it easy this month so I did not have a lot of goals....

  Decorate the Den China Cupboard and the area around it for Saint Patrick's Day - YES!!!

 

Contact my Tax Preparer and get paper work to him - YES!!!


 I am waiting for him to get back to me that it is finished and filed along with the paper work for my PA. Tax Rebate for Seniors.....

 Go through and reorganize my jewelry armoire - YES!

  February was more of a Social month.....  

 Plan for and conduct the February meeting of the Young at Heart Senior Social Club... YES!

    Our speaker was a local attorney who is certified in Elder Law and Estate Planning...
 
 
 
 
 
 We are now up to 30 members......
 
 
Attend and help out with the monthly breakfast that our Community group at church hosts after 9 am Mass....YES!!
 
Some friends....Sue, Dan and Joanne..... 
 
 
   
 We support a local bakery, Bakery Delite, by purchasing the bagels and sweets from them....
 
 
 
We had a nice turn out even though the kids were not there from CCD as there was none because of the Holiday weekend....
 

Have my family over to celebrate my Birthday......YES!!
 
 We had pizza, fries and chicken bites....



 
 
 
 
 
 Attend the Young at Heart Senior Social Club Lunch Out at a local restaurant......YES!!!
  
 
 
 There was 18 of us....
 

 As you can see, we all enjoyed a great lunch and a wonderful time together....
 
 
 Attend the Raging Reptile Show at the Wyoming Valley Mall that was cancelled because of the January Snowstorm....YES!!!!
 
This is what I did last weekend!! 
 
 These are pictures posted on the Wyoming Valley Mall's FB site of the event , which was a huge success....
 
Since my son Joey is about 6'4", he did stand out in the crowd!! 
  

 
 That is me to the left bending down to see the critter in the container....
 

My DIL Danielle met us there with my twin granddaughters but one was crying so she stayed on the sidelines....


They did put on a show for the audience......
 



Some of the critters for show......
  

 
Joey petting the turtle....
 




 
And this is Lemon Drop.....
 

And Joey with Lemon Drop........


He could not wait to do this!!!



Me???????
 
NOT SO MUCH!!!!!
 
Can I tell you just how afraid of snakes I am?????
 
VERY AFRAID!!!!!!
 
So much so that everyone was laughing because every time I turned around, there was a little girl holding a snake!!!
 
Oh, yes I did!!
 
I screamed at this little girl holding a snake!!!! 
 
I did muster up the courage to touch it.... 
 

 For only a second!!!!!
 
And yes, I screamed at this little girl too!!! 


Joey is still laughing at me being the only one in this crowd screaming!!!!!
 

LOL!!
 
And Yes, I also screamed when I turned around and saw this..... 


SWEET MOTHER!!!!!
 
That is Joey petting it!!


NO THANK YOU!!

When they took it out of that cart!!!


I took these pictures from a distance......
 
A far distance....... 

After I faced my one of my greatest fears, which is snakes, Danielle, Joey and I walked around the Mall twice with the Twins...... 
 
 
 
 Who fell asleep.....
 

Our mall is trying to make a comeback and several new businesses are moving in which will be good....

 Danielle and I decided that we will have to start meeting at the Mall and walk it with the twins so she can get out of the house with them after experiencing the coldest Winter we have had here in NEPA in 30 years!!!!!
 
What I did not get to do in February because of how cold it was is start to pack away the Christmas decorations upstairs in the Sitting Room, Craft Room, Bathroom and hallway.....
 
I shut the doors to most of these rooms and do not keep the heat on in them and had no intention of doing so when it was in the single digits outside...
 
Along with going up the attic....  
 
I have tabled them til April..... 
 
 
 

 
MARCH GOALS
 
March is definitely a working month for me... 
 
Pack up Winter/Heart Month Decorations in Living Room
 
Clean the Living Room, change the linens over from Winter to Spring/Summer
 
Change the drapes and curtains over from Winter to Spring/Summer in the Living Room 
 
 Decorate the Living Room for Easter
 
Pack up Heart Month decor and clean the Dining Room
 
Decorate the Dining Room for Easter.... 
 
 Pack up the Winter decor in the Kitchen
 
Clean and decorate the Kitchen for Easter
 
Pack away the Valentine's Decor and the Snow Buddies from the Powder Room
 
Clean and return the Powder Room back to the normal decor
 
 Pack up the Winter decor from the Den
 
Clean and return the Den back to it's normal Americana decor... 
 
 Change Nelson Crest, my Victorian Doll House, over to Easter from Winter decor....
 
Decorate the front porch for Spring
 
Find a landscaper to weed and mulch the front yard slope...
 
  
Social Goals
 
Help out with the monthly Breakfast at my church 
 
 Attend a play, Fiddler on the Roof, at the local High School with the Young at Heart Senior Social Club on March 8th
 
Plan and conduct March meeting of the Young at Heart Senior Social Club on March 11th 
 
Attend a Wilkes Barre Scranton Penguins Hockey game with my son on March 13th... 
 
Eye Dr. appointment on March 17th which was postponed due to the January snowstorm
 
Celebrate my DIL Danielle's Birthday with our usual pizza party 
 
Go to the Home and Garden Show at the Arena by my house on March 21st 
 
Help out with the Easter Egg Hunt that my parish's Community Group is partnering with the borough to put on for the children on March 22nd 
 
Take the car in for an oil change and  inspection on the 23rd
 
Attend Living Stations at church on March 27th 
 
 
 Time will tell how I do with my Goals in March as it looks to be quite a busy month...... 
 
I have already packed away all the Winter/Heart Month decorations from the Living Room and Dining Room... 
 
  
I hope you will stop by to visit again on MONDAY for my next post.....
 
 Stay safe, healthy and most of all, HAPPY!! 
 
  And try to find JOY in every single day!
 

Thanks to those who took the time out of their busy day to spend a little bit of time with me!!

If you do not have a blog, PLEASE  give me some way to reply to your comment, maybe by including your email in your comment.  If I can not find a way to reach you, I will reply on the post where you commented so please check back......


I am linking up to these parties:
 
 


  THURSDAY
 
 
 Please take some time to visit these terrific hosts and all those joining in on the fun!
 
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