DEBBIE-DABBLE BLOG: August 2015

I am a Victorian Soul, who lives in a small townhouse that was built in the mid 1970's, not a huge Mega Mansion!! I just recently lost my Hubby Joe, who was a Retired Letter Carrier. I worked night shift as an RN on a Hospital based Rehabilitation( Physical Medicine) Unit for 37 years before I had Knee Replacement Surgery and officially Retired in 2019 after 41 years working in Direct Patient Care ... I am so glad that we retired at 62 years of age and got to spend that time together before he passed....I still do love Retirement!!!!

I DABBLE IN A BIT OF THIS AND THAT!!!!

" IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO BE WHAT YOU MIGHT HAVE BEEN"
George Eliot

George Eliot was actually a pen name for a woman named Mary Anne Evans......

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Saturday, August 15, 2015

The Church of my Childhood , Coming Full Circle

Some time ago, I did a post when my childhood Church , St. Mary of Czestochowa ,closed.

Click HERE to read it.

This was the picture on the front page of the local newspaper after the last mass was held there......

The woman with the glasses is my Aunt Marge Kolojejchick Palmer......

It was the Church where my parents were baptized, received all their sacraments including saying their marriage vows and were both buried from.

I also received all my sacraments there......

It was where Joe and I were married....

My sons were baptized there......

And may I add that this same priest, Rev. Edward Sokoloski, not only married me but he baptized me and my sons!!

It was where we ,and many of my family members before and after us, stood on these steps and posed for pictures......

In the beginning of the 1900's, this area became home to many Eastern European immigrants....
Italian, Polish, Slovak, Russian and Lithuanian.

The Irish and Welsh had already settled here a century before.....

In many of the small towns, a church was built on virtually every street corner.

Each Nationality built their own church because they did not speak English when they came to this country and the parishioners and the priest of each church therefore spoke the same language and had immigrated from the same area...

Many of these immigrants never learned to speak English including Joe's maternal grandmother who only spoke Polish until the day she died in 1977.

Now, there are too many Catholic churches and not enough parishioners to maintain these churches so our Diocese has been closing churches left and right.

It is an unfortunate necessity.

The oldest parishioner of the Parish, locked the doors forever...

Did I attend the last Mass???

Even though one of the last times that I was in St. Mary's was for my own Mother's Funeral.......

No I did not want to attend the last Mass held in this, the church of my Childhood, I wanted to remember this Church with happiness and not with sadness...........

While they were demolishing the church, a terrible tragedy occurred, you can read about it HERE

The church had collapsed onto the crane with the owner of the demolition company inside of it, killing him.....

What a devastating blow to a community already mourning the loss of a hundred year old church......

This was all that remained and now they are building a new home on the site......

The corner stone was preserved .......

Members of the church then joined the Parish Community of the only remaining Catholic Church in the town and that church's name was changed to St. Elizabeth Ann Seton .

It is my sister's Church.......

Like many of the newly formed Parishes in this area , items from the closed or demolished Churches were saved and memorialized.........

This is what my sister's church did.........

There is the cornerstone of St. Mary's......

And this is the cornerstone of Holy Name Church , which was another church that St. Mary's had merged with about 15-20 years prior.......

They did a nice job......

That is the Bell of St. Mary's......

Here is where it was once housed......

My Dad was also janitor there for some time and I remember going up into the choir as a little girl and my Dad having to ring the Bells by hand before Mass. He would let me hold on tight to the rope and I would fly up in the air hanging on to the rope as he rang the Bells.

St. Elizabeth Ann Seton decided to sell engraved Pavers to place around the Bell and Cornerstones ......

My sister and I decided to buy one..........

But we pondered what to put on it........

We decided on this........

This, "The Frank Kolojejchick Family", we feel memorializes our original Family.......

My Dad, Frank......

My Mom, Pauline.....

My sister, Barbara.......

And me......

It was just the 4 of us....

The Frank Kolojejchick Family......

Our paver is close to the Bell......

Only fitting.....

The Church that Joe and I have belonged to for about the past 20 years is St. Maria Goretti , which is the Patron Saint of Children.

Even though I do LOVE our parish and both my parents are memorialized on a Tree Of Life in our church, there will always be a special place in my heart for St. Mary's......

I do have 2 bricks that were taken from St. Mary's that I have yet to decide how to display or what to do with them...

Any suggestions??????

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And thanks to those who took the time out of their busy day to spend a little bit of time with me!!

Hugs,
Debbie

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Tuesday, August 11, 2015

37 Years of Marriage Refelcted on a Gallery Wall

August 12th, 1978

37 years ago............

We were married...........

This is a long post filled with a lot of personal photos that I do not usually share on my blog so have a seat and grab a cup of coffee or tea..........

It was close to 90 degrees that day........

That was the day when I left the life that I once led as Debbie Kolojejchick and became Debbie Barna......

But our story started long before that......

Joe and I met as co workers at , of all things , a BINGO run by a neighborhood Hose Company of which my sister's husband was a member, in the Fall of 1974

I was a checker and Joe , who was employed by the guy who was paid to run the Bingo for the Hose Company , was a Caller.

I was 16 years old and a senior in High School.

Joe was almost 4 years older than I was, lived in Freeland which was an hour away from the town I lived in and was working as Supervisor in the Shipping Department of American Tobacco, which was a factory, located 20 minutes from where I lived.

I was already dating another guy from New York, who was a freshman at a local College that I met while participating in a Mock Government event for area High Schools.........

My first date with Joe was March 8th, 1975.

We went to Freeland, got a flat tire, I stayed in George's Gas Station with George watching Carol Burnett while Joe and his cousin changed the flat tire!

I was still dating the other guy from New York, which I broke up with shortly afterward.

I graduated High School, entered Nursing School and was engaged to Joe when I was 18 years old.

He was almost 22 years old.

We put a down payment on our Townhouse in December of 1977 and closed on our house in March of 1978.

I was a home owner at 20 years old, before we were even married.

I did not want to live anywhere close to my parents so the townhouse that we bought was located 25 minutes across the Susquehanna River from my parents and 40 minutes from Joe's parents.

Take my word for it, our townhouse did not look like this when we bought it shortly after it was built.

The original plan was that we would live here for 5 years and then build a house over on the other side of the river where I grew up.

37 years later, we are still here.

The best laid plans go astray.....

I am good with that and would never consider moving back to where I grew up because I am a firm believer in "What is meant to be, will be" and I am supposed to be here.......

In the past 37 years.......

My Dad, the first love of my life, passed away suddenly at 67 years old........

I had just turned 30 years old. I think of him every day of my life.......

My Mom sold the house that my Dad built and that I had lived in since I was 4 years old until I married, 3 months after he died.

It was the BEST thing that she ever did and she moved into a Senior Citizen Apartment Building in the same area.

She lived for 17 years without the love of her life and then finally at 84 years old, she joined him.

That was 11 years ago.

Okay, now back to My Gallery Wall as it is now the popular thing to call it in Blog Land.......

This wall has been a Gallery Wall for many years but I always called it my Wall of Fame!!

It represents 37 years of Marriage........

I apologize that some of the pictures are dark but this is a wall down the long narrow hall way that connects our Living Room with the Kitchen and has very little natural lighting......

Let's start closest to the Living Room.......

I divided the wall into 2 halves because we have 2 sons.......

This is Jim, our younger son's side...........

This side of the wall mainly showcases Jim.

I was 25 years old when Jim was born on December 7, 1983

One of Jim's High School Senior pictures......

This collage shares Santa and Easter Bunny photos......

Both of our sons did not really like Santa so these are my Screaming Meamie pictures!!!

I never got Joey to sit on Santa's lap without screaming but Jim did later when he was older.....

They both liked the Easter Bunny though!!

This is the original announcement that my parent's sent out after my Dad built our new home in a development called Knob Hill.........

It was the second house that my Dad built for my Mom.........

And the house that he would die in........

This was our beloved Savanna.....

Jim's Senior Picture Proofs......

Another Senior photo of Jim......

Joe and I at a concert in Ceasar's in Atlantic City.......

Look at Joe's dark hair!!!

Moving further down the Wall........

This was taken also at Ceasar's in Atlantic City when we took the boys to their first concert......

Joe had free comps to see The Moody Blues!!!

This was taken at my nephew John's Wedding ..........

Joey was in the Wedding Party.....

My Baby Boy.......

I wanted to be a young Mother because I was raised by older parents ( My parents would have been 96 years old this year) so our little Family was complete when I was 25 years old and Joe was 29 years old.

When taking these photos, I realized that I had not added one very important person , not only in Jim's life but in our life, to this Wall of Fame.......

So I replaced a photo of the boys taken at the Bloomsburg Fair with a more fitting photo......

Jim and our Daughter-in-Love, Danielle, who has been such a Blessing in our lives......

I do have to do a bit more updating in the future to do......

Both of our sons were in Cub Scouts and I was a Den Mother!!

Now we move to the middle of the Wall.....

Our Wedding picture......

And a picture taken for a Parish Photo Album at our church.......

This was the year of our 30th Wedding Anniversary......

Now moving down to Joey's side of the Wall.......

Joey was born when I was 23 years old on December 29, 1981

My Baby Boy....

This was taken while on vacation in Niagra Falls.......

More photos taken for that Parish Photo Album.......

Joe looks like he is running for Political Office in this photo!!

Further down the Wall.....

Joey's Senior Picture Proofs.....

A Family photo......

Joey's Senior Picture from High School.....

And his graduation from College.......

Another Senior Picture.....

Our Baby Boys taken at Day Care........

Our Engagement Picture......

Look at Joe's hair!!!

The Boys at Easter time with our sweet Cassie.......

And that is our Wall of Fame!!!

This hand painted picture was a gift from a fellow blogger memorializing our 2 precious fur babies that are waiting at the Rainbow Bridge for us......

So here we are 37 years later......

We have been through Richer and Poorer.....

Factory Lay Offs and Shut Downs and finally a more secure job for Joe as a Mail Man!!

And through Sickness and Health.......

Joe after surgery to remove 100's of warts on both feet.......

I went through 3 surgeries in 3 years including surgery to remove a cancerous tumor.......

And I remain Cancer free.......

But I have Knee Replacement Surgery in my future......

Our Boys have become self sufficient hard working, happy adults......

They have moved out on their own but right up the street in the Apartment Complex right next to our townhouse development.......

They come here to eat and celebrate every Holiday and as long as they still can and want to the doors are wide open for them!!

My Family is my Heart and Soul.....

Danielle, Jim, Joey and Joe.......taken on a trip last year to Washington, D.C.

Joey, Joe and Jim.......

Our little Family became 5 about 7 years ago.......

Jim and Danielle's story is a lot like ours.....

They met working together at Target and were friends first, but after they attended my niece's Wedding together, things changed....

They now live together in a townhouse and work the over night shift at Target.

Jim has worked there since Target first opened here in our area.

Jim and Joey

Joey is an IT Specialist for Web. Com and has his own apartment.......

Joey with fellow co- workers.....

Joe will be retiring soon......

As a Letter Carrier for the United States Post Office.......

He is still the "Joker" that I met 41 years ago!

And still loves his pizza!!

I have recently went Part Time after working full time for 37 years as a Staff Nurse in a Hospital......

32 of these years have been night shift.......

Yes, we have weathered many a storm..........

And I have embraced my age, deciding to Age Gracefully, and decided to go Gray!!

I am enjoying working Part Time and we are preparing for Joe's Retirement........

We will be celebrating our 37th Wedding Anniversary with a quiet Dinner at home, just Joe and I...

I am off but Joe is working so he will be picking up dinner from our favorite Italian Restaurant, Leggio's, on his way home from work.......

But we will do a bit more celebrating on Sunday when we celebrate Joe's 61st birthday, which is actually the 17th !!!!

Just our little Family of 5!!!

And that is just how we like it!!

Thanks so much for sitting through The Story of Our Lives!!!

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And thanks to those who took the time out of their busy day to spend a little bit of time with me!!

Hugs,
Debbie

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